Is it selfish
this chosen solitude?
How I treasure silence,
stillness baiting my muse
And is it my calm
that attracts chaos?
The sorrow of others
landing on my doorstep
What if I rejected pleas,
locked out the troubles?
How long can I sustain
peace until need answers?
(Tuesdays, I borrow from Twitter @Vjknutson. Image my own)
When self-care is needed, definitely close that door!
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I try…oh, I try…such a pleaser 😁
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I feel you, but try harder! Your sanity matters! ❤
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Great “peace”! I’d say lock the door VJ 😂
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Lol. some days it sure feels like that.
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hahaha I sure do know! 💗
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Nothing wrong with chosen solitude in this too busy, too overwhelming world.
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Well put, Eilene
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Protect yourself when and how you need to. It’s not selfish; it’s called balance. You give a lot.
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I like that. Balance. I forget about it even though it is all important
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I know whereof you speak.
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Lol. Thanks
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You’re welcome.
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It’s the airline announcement to put on your own mask before assisting others. If we don’t recharge ourselves we are left with no energy to help others. What did I love this poem? I enjoyed the title, the word choice and of course, all the questions!
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I’ve been thinking of that analogy too, LuAnne. Today, I’ve been focusing on Mother Teresa’s words: “small things with great love”. Thanks
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Oh this is beautifully said, VJ! xo
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Thanks so much!
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Hello VJ…..I need a place of solitude….without it I can’t function….therefore I can’t help those who might turn up at my door! Having said that no one comes to my door unless invited or expected..i.e. the post man and all other deliveries:)
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Lol, Janet. Since we started hosting Ukrainians, I’ve considered putting a revolving door on the front.
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I can imagine:)
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It does seem selfish sometimes to have peace when others close to are facing turmoil. Yet even Jesus withdrew to place of solitude to strengthen His inner soul. He never blocked out the hurts of others. Solitude can be restorative. Without it we don’t have the strength to help others.
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I like that advice. Thank you
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You’re welcome 😇
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Hardest questions ever, VJ. Well done.
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Thanks Ron
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💜💜
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Thanks
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