The decision has been made – it is time for us to move on to the next stage of life.
The house will be sold and we shall look for a smaller, rental apartment. It hasn’t been easy coming to this conclusion, and it won’t be easy making the transition, but excitement is part of the equation.
We will be moving back to the city, closer to family, and doctors, and all conveniences.
Now the purge and pack begins.
Acceptance, wisdom, and openness are at my side: three gifts to guide me.
May the transition go as smooth as silk. Hopefully the excitement for the end result will carry through the difficult aspects.
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Thanks Eilene.
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Transitions are difficult. I just read that “you have to embrace the old you and the new you to make transitions.” Hoping you have a happy landing. Your health and family are what matters most in life. Sometimes we only realize it when both are gone. I’m glad you’re seizing the moment.
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Thank you. I’m glad we are too
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You’re welcome
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A wise decision. We moved to an apartment 13 years ago for basically the same reasons. Good luck with a new chapter in your life.
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Thanks Eugi. Were you glad you did?
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Mostly yes. A lot depends on neighbors, and how well the property is maintained. I suggest you research the property owner and property management, and read reviews if possible.
The advantages are issues are repaired or replaced by the maintenance team. And in our case, the premises is maintained by a landscaping service. I don’t living here, because we’re in the middle of a lovely wooded area. Out apartment is a decent size with a balcony, where we can enjoy the outside and enjoy birdwatching, etc. Most of all it is a gated community and safe.
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My husband used to be in the development business, so he knows about the reputations of the builders. I’m researching the reviews. I think the winner is located just outside the city in a forested area. Good views.
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Seems like you’ve done your homework, and that’s great you found a winner.
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Thanks.
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Wisdom throughout
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Thanks Derrick
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A good decision VJ.
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Thanks Sadje
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I’m of the same mind- shift to a smaller place after a few years.
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New scenery 😊
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Yes!
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We recently moved from the home we had lived in for 26 years. It ain’t easy and we’re still not fully settled. I wish you the best of luck and hope you find a place that you can be happy in. Take care, VJ.
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Then you understand, Jill. Exciting and exhausting.
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Oh yes, my friend … I understand completely! Take care and get some rest when you can.
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Thanks
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I’m actually really happy to hear this, VJ. You are one of few people I know who are honest with themselves and intentional about aging.
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Thanks for that encouragement, K. My mom was the same – must have learned it from her.
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I love your perspective and intention, VJ. Sending all of my best wishes to you!
❤️❤️❤️
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Thanks Vicki.
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you have chosen three wise companions. It will work out well 🙂
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Thanks John
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Wishing you all the best as you transition into this newest chapter VJ. At our age, being close to those important people, places and things that can make our life better is such a blessing. I hope you’re able to find a place quickly and that it’s one of those places you just fall in love with immediately!
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Thanks so much Terri.
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Sometimes there is relief when you finally find acceptance and openness. All the best as you begin the transition.
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Thanks Heather
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You’re welcome.
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Happy Trails!
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Thanks Julie
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Wish your three gifts brings you peace
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Thank you
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All the best for your transitioning to this new stage in your life!
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Thanks Liz.
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You’re welcome, VJ.
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Blessings on this new chapter of life, VJ. It is a question my husband and I visit often. May it be smooth and bring joy and ease. 🩷
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Thanks Janis.
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Wisely said, now it’s just a matter of packing boxes and unpacking boxes, then repacking boxes and reunpacking boxes … and so on …
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Hahaha – the madness has begun
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I wish you a smooth and successful move, VJ. and I hope it is more exciting than difficult. I try to look upon aging as an adventure. This is where our imaginations can help. Hugs, Sarah
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Good advice, Sarah. I am looking forward to a new adventure.
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