Child of mine,
what rage is this
that sets you against
a younger brother?
What discontent stirs
so deeply within that
you would lash out
at me, your mother?
Let us sit a moment,
and let me, with tenderness,
listen, for your anger masks
pain, and I am not so far
removed from childhood
to recognize that tone.
If I have wronged you,
speak; I need to hear it.
If peers are pressuring,
or bullying, or you feel
betrayed, lay it here
in my hands, and I will
comfort you, and offer
what wisdom I have.
Your well-being is sacred
to me; let me hold you –
you’re not too old – linger
here in my embrace until
the tears come, and the storm
passes; I will hear your fears,
frustrations, and disappointments,
and together we will figure it out.
Child of mine,
I am here for you,
no matter the reason;
your pain is my pain,
talk to me; I am listening.
(This poem first appeared Dec, 2019. Image my own)
This is such a beautiful expression of love holding space in tender embrace that a mother’s heart holds. Beautifully conveyed! 💖
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Thanks Cindy!
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Beautiful, VJ ❤️
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Thanks 😊 ☺️
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Reblogged this on Cuddles, Books and Stories.
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Thanks for sharing
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Deeply grained with offering support and assistance to the needy souls. It touched my heart and kindly accept my virtual hugs. ❤️
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Thank you so much. Hugs appreciated.
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Beautiful.
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Thanks 😊
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Beautiful, and it’s quite moving…
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Thanks Amy
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I have read and, read this again. It leaves a dull ache. When I think of all the times I should have listened before jumping in.
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Me too, Heather. If I could go back.
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We can’t go back, but after reading your words in “Carry On” , it reminds me that there will be more opportunities to be there and listen.
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Yes! So true.
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What sweet words. I have no children, so when I read this, I feel the perspective of the child, being comforted by my mother. I have no doubt my mother has said similar words to me in past years and would so even now to comfort me. My heart hurts for those who have not known such sweet love from their mother. 😢❤
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In a perfect world… but that never happens. Thanks Lisa.
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This is a beautiful piece of writing VJ. As a Mother I have been there often even now when my kids are adults. Thank you for putting it so well.
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We all need this kind of mothering, no matter our age. Thanks Anne.
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Oh wow – I liked this so much – for three reasons
first because it had that VJ flow with succinct words and your style of writing
second, as a parent I could relate and the tenderness and open arms was moving
third, as a counselor I feel so much health and wisdom for wellness layered here – with permission to cry and the hugging and so many wellness elements layered shows your seasoning and reminds us that it is not about perfection or easy lives – but about togetherness and conversation – and about connection and effort to heal and grow.
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and perhaps there is a fourth thing that spoke to me – in a way it felt like this could be how God speaks to us and loves on us.
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🙂
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I love your fourth point. We all need that tender embrace.
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Wise and tender words. As a mother, I want to “mother” like that!
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Thanks. I wish I had, but as a grandmother, there is a second chance.
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❤ that's all any of us needs, usually ❤
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Yes. Perhaps I unconsciously wrote this for my own inner child.
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Our children can lash out at us because they know it’s a safe place…even if we never discover the true source of the anger. (K)
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True. I remember the best parenting advice I ever received was to not take anything personally.
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Good advice in general, but hard to actually put into practice.
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Agreed. Thanks.
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Motherhood can represent the best of humanity. “Your well-being is sacred to me” powers the heart to listen and not be judgmental, but sometimes waiting is a must until the right moment comes. Not to be intrusive is sometimes difficult for me when I see the pain, but I’ve learned to wait. Moving poem, V.J. ❤
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It’s a process, isn’t it – learning how to respond, especially when your own patience is put to the test. Thanks Olga.
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I think I’ve become more patient recently. 🙂 Learning when to bite my tongue or pause and re-sculpture my words of wisdom. It takes a lot of practise. 🙂
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Indeed.
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A beautiful poem VJ
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Thanks
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I was very moved by your poem. This is the mother everyone longs for, regardless of their age.
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It really is. I wrote in in the aftermath of an argument – the mother I wish I was.
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I know just what you mean. That’s the mother I wish I had been when my daughter was growing up.
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This…has my heart, VJ. As a mother I have felt this. Very moving. ❤️
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Thanks Punam. It what our heart feels and yet too often we are unable to express.
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I agree, it is not easy to express every time. You are welcome.
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So sweet and deeply emotional. Resonating. Also I love the image. I’ve been on the lookout of an angel statue to adorn my room where I write, one that looks like your image.
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Thanks. This statue spoke to me – sadly it is atop a gravestone.
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Aw… Still beautiful.
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