The call came just as I was falling into a deep sleep, which didn’t help my mood. Neither my husband nor I recognized the number. After the usual formalities, Thor handed me the phone. It was a man who had tracked me down earlier in the year, looking for psychic counselling. Although I don’t practice anymore, I had made an exception for him.
“I need your advice,” he started. “I feel like things are shifting, and I have a new woman in my life. I think she is my soulmate.”
“You are not going to like what I have to say,” I interrupted. “I don’t believe in ‘soul mates’.”
“You don’t believe in reincarnation?”
“Yes, but not that there is only one person for us.” I really didn’t want to get into this right now.
“I think I have been downloaded several times.”
“Are you still there?”
“I don’t know what that means.” The conversation was becoming very irritating. ‘Downloaded’ was a new one to me, but I had heard lots – ‘walk-ins’, ‘star children’, among others.
“I am very pragmatic.” I warned. “If the idea or information is not practical, I avoid it.”
I cut the conversation short.
I understand the drive to find answers to life’s mysteries. I myself spent many years exploring different philosophies and theories, looking for one that would help me understand and feel in control. Truth is, none exist. No matter what we believe, or think we know, life is full of uncertainty, and yes, risk.
This caller, like many before him, wants to know that the choices he is making will lead to happiness and a better life. He wants to avoid pain and heartache, and above all, loneliness. He wants to believe in magic over common sense.
Whatever answers we seek, we need to be able to weigh them against some practical form of measurement. We need guidance for living a good life, not a promise that we will meet a ‘soul mate’ who will fulfill us, nor a foolproof plan for ensuring eternal bliss. Sound advice for slogging through the hard stuff, simplifying our lives, and being true to ourselves are the answers we should be seeking.