Met a bear who proclaimed himself to be a man;
knew the instant I spotted him – lumbering
gait approaching – that he was an animal,
feared for my safety, would have retreated
stayed at my mother’s side – sheltered in
familiarity – were I not so fixated on his
blatant woundedness. Sympathy blinding
sensibility, i listened, hypnotized
by the whiteness of his exposed skin –
wanted to believe the veracity of his
tales of conversion – could visualize
him sitting in church, imagine the
horror of the congregants melting,
as I was, into acceptance, drinking
in his words, hearts soaring at his
professed abstinence from sins
of the flesh; none of immune to
fairy-tale endings; faith above all.
Left the sanctity of mother’s fold;
followed him to his wooded lair;
read humility into his minimalist
housing, swept away his cobwebs
and my dreams, determined to
find fulfillment in domesticity.
The forest has it own story to tell –
nature does not lie – a beast does not
its essence forget, in time his true
temperament emerged, and I, lost
withered into a crumpled ball,
a wisp of a character, weakened,
disheartened; could not bend
myself to become either bear
nor Goldilocks; could not tame
his insatiable grumblings nor
abide long winters confined;
discovered too late the folly
of my girlish fantasies, learned
that sympathy did not beget love,
and denying instincts did not alter
the fact that a bear is not a man.
(Poem first appeared here April 2016. Couldn’t resist the accompanying image – photoshopped by yours truly)
Love the reading. Loved the message. Xoxo
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Thank you Selma
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Amazing post.
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Thank you !
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Oh, fairy tales are quite deceptive and we all fall under their spell. I love your words and yes, let us all discern what is sympathy for the devil.
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Thanks Mary
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Love hearing you read your poems!
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Thanks so much for that encouragement
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You’re welcome!
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Amazing composition, VJ. It can be so hard to see reality behind the facades so carefully crafted. We tend to blame ourselves for not seeing the reality, instead of putting it on the deceiver. You seem to have achieved some balance here.
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It’s so true that we blame ourselves. Thanks Eilene
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Powerful poem and imagery.
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Thank you!
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You’re welcome!
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So very true!!!❤️
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🙏💕
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Sympathy is not love…and words are not actions…and fairy tales have a dark side, always…somehow, it seems, we need to learn these lessons over and over again. (K)
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Yes, yes, and yes. Thanks
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This is an amazing peice of writing this poem VJ Wonderful but haunting .
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Thanks Anne
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This poem sent shivers up and down my spine. Too many women have fallen for a bear’s charming facade, which will destroy them if they don’t get away.
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Way too many. Thanks Liz
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You’re welcome, VJ.
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I love how this poem unfolded – amazing!
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Thanks!
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So poignant and real. Unfortunately, many learn this too late.
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You are so right. Thanks
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The poem in its entirety is incredible, but this really jumped out at me.
nature does not lie – a beast does not
its essence forget, in time his true
temperament emerged, and I, lost
withered into a crumpled ball,
a wisp of a character, weakened,
disheartened; could not bend
myself to become either bear
nor Goldilocks
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Thanks Heather. It is terrible what abuse does to a person.
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Ohhhhh….”fairy tale endings; faith above all”….I can’t say why exactly, but boy did that phrasing lock into my heart. xo! 💕
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The conditioning of our youth. Thanks Victoria
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💕💕💕
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Wow – this is amazing 🙏
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Thank you!
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Such a powerful, well penned, metaphor
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Thank you Derrick
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