Never joined a sorority,
irked by the concept
of conformity…
Besides, those girls
flirted with audacity,
while my self-image
was frail, shattered by
the fraternity next door.
(Tuesdays, I borrow from Twitter @Vjknutson. Image my own)
Never joined a sorority,
irked by the concept
of conformity…
Besides, those girls
flirted with audacity,
while my self-image
was frail, shattered by
the fraternity next door.
(Tuesdays, I borrow from Twitter @Vjknutson. Image my own)
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Even though I was an avid learner, I’m so glad I never entertained the thought of college.
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I went, but I was still a loner, lol.
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Honestly, I don’t think that’s a bad thing. đ
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Being free has its own charm. Loved it!
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Thanks
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I agree đ
Who needs to fit in anyway, I rather fit out with the misfits; he who I am.
Sorry, I got carried away there but great poem. I felt it and thanks for sharing đ đ
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Thanks. Your comment made me smile.
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I’m glad it did đ If I could out a smile on everyone’s face, it would be a ultimate blessing đ
Your welcome by the way and take care
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I can relate! đ
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Maybe it’s a prerequisite for writing.
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Thatâs true đ
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I know how it feels to be lonely
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Sorry that you do. Seems to be the way for some.
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Not a sorority girl either. Much too poor at the time. Lived at home, then later I was married – still lived at home. Didn’t miss it. Too crazy for me at that time, especially.
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Yes, there was that aspect of it. I actually left home at 17, so I was working when I wasn’t at school, just to survive.
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I hear that. Once I got through my first year and a stint at a dental assistant course, I was doing the same, but not at 17. You were very young. We had just moved 2500 miles away from my dad when I was 15, so I was needed at home. I stayed until I was about 19.
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Didn’t hurt us in the long run, though, did it!
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well done and I didn’t either. love ths VJ. My son’s frat house had an overdose when he was there and died in his house. I am not a fan!!!
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Too much of that, Cindy. Amazing the numbers that did survive. Thanks.
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I’m always bracing myself for that final line of yours, where all is revealed â¤
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Oh, K, what a wonderful compliment. Thank you.
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Sometimes it can be so lonesome to be a loner but we move to our inner beat. Love this, VJ.
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Thanks Punam.
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Oh my.. me too. so many of those boys were so defended, hard and cruel.. hugs and love
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Thanks.
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Despite me never joining a sorority, all my children did. My youngest uses it a tool for professional advancement and nurturing relationships. She has found these relationships helpful when making career moves. The comfort of a familiar face has its benefits.
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I can see that. Our children continue to teach us.
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Indeed. I guess I didnât realize it was a tool for networking.
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I was in a sorority while in college but it was related to academics and not a socialite group. I’m not one to join clubs, etc. for social purposes.
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That’s interesting, Eugi. That would be useful.
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It was useful and a way to be involved on a smaller scale.
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I can relate. Not so much with college, but with High School, and life. I enjoy being on my own, actually. The older I get, the more I realize I need to make a few good friends to grow old with…
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Yup. Truth in 28 words. Although so sad, this is very refreshing in a way—I am so sick of hearing millions of words of lies in the media! (Here endeth my rant..) đ
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Thanks Julia!
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A fantastic image expressing so well what your words convey – Apart from the crowd.
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Thanks!
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I can relate to the sorority thing, VJ. I avoided them. But I have been a joiner, it just wasn’t Greek, you know the marching band, the church choir, National Writing Project… that kind of thing. I did enjoy how you put the poem together. And I can imagine living next to a frat house would be irritating at best. đ
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Thanks LuAnne. I guess I did join the swim team. Hadn’t thought of it that way.
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I, too never joined a sorority, but not for the reasons mentioned in your poem. I hope you’ve found your people.
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Thanks.
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loners are cool đ
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Yes we are!
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Some of my best friends would be loners, if I had any friends đłđł
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Lol.
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I’ve never been a fan of sororities or fraternities, fraternities in particular. Your poem effectively expresses the reasons.
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Yep. Thanks.
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You’re welcome.
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Me too.
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For years I dreamed of joining a sorority, so many possibilities. đĽ
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Lol. I’m sure you did!
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I have been a loner my entire life VJ. Especially when it comes to my interior life. Thank you for this post and all your poetry and creativity. You remind me to open the door to my interior. Maybe today.. one inch more. Andrea â¤ď¸
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It’s a dance with ourselves, isn’t it?
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Amen!
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