Daddy yelled
and Mommy cried
and new dresses appeared
A pattern
my young heart
vowed to break
Chose a man,
reticent in nature,
pursued a career
Then babies came
and I stayed home
and he withheld cash
Pendulum swings
left to right – money
holds the key to power
(Money first appeared here January, 2019. Image my own)
At least thereβs always the possibility you can get monetary payback with alimony.
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Nope. That did not happen.
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Sorry. Some states allow it.
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I, fortunately, never had to live in that situation, in my family of origin or my current family. I have, however, known so many women who have had that as their lives. I am glad that is not your current situation, VJ. I am glad you posted this poem again. It is a good poem to serve up again.
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Thanks LuAnne.
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An honest word put in so right!
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Thanks so much, and nice to meet you!
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indeed it can hold the power – and well said
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Thanks π
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π
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Very sad…Somehow people don’t think motherhood is a job worthy of monetary reimbursement!
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So true. Thanks Dwight.
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You are welcome!
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Sheesh. We think we’re healing, but we’re just living the other side of a coin.
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Often. Thank goodness, things have balanced out now.
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Money can make us happy
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It does have that power.
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Ir happened to two of ny sisters. To me too but i could leave.
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Glad you got out. I did too but it was a struggle for a long time.
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I wasn’t married to the bastard, no kids, but still it took too long. He was supposed to share the rent but then didn’t.
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This is so sad to me – and insightful. Your poem stirs up memories of the lives I watched being lived while I was growing up. As a child I saw that mothers (often in my world) were trapped and vulnerable. Lots of images in few words. I guess that’s why it’s poetry. π
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Absolutely. My mother had no choice but to stay and endure the abuse. Appreciate you comment.
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True!
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Thanks
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so true, VJ! Money is the root of all evil!
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It can be. I’d like to know it in a different context, like one less stressful, lol.
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Yeah, that would be nice ππ
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I like the double innuendo of the last stanza.
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Thanks Heather
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You’re welcome.
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Money is very important to make life comfortable
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It is!
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But too much makes life more difficult
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I’ll never know, lol
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Not personally, but we have seen examples of it. π
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You are so right about the role money can play in relationships.
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Definitely a mechanism for abuse, which I didn’t learn till much, much later.
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