LinkedIn wants me to connect
with former colleagues, ignores
the fact that they haven’t opted
to reach out to me, fails to
recognize the state of my disability
sets me on the margins of society
Facebook likes to remind me
of things I did in the past, drags
up conversations, or outings
no longer valid, refuses to
honour the value of letting go –
that moving on is moving up.
twitter wakes me up at night
when I’ve forgotten to mute
the phone, announces likes
and new follows of people
I do not know, rubbing salt
in the wounds of isolation
instagram has shut me out
seems I constantly forget
my password, but they never
fail to send me updates of
the picture perfect events
of those whose minds work.
I sometimes visit snapchat,
whose messages make me laugh
and I know that there are others
more hip to possess, but just
the thought of sign ups has me
reeling with new-found anxiety
Please don’t misunderstand me,
of social media, I’m a fan; it’s just
that I don’t need further indications
of my compromised state, and in the
flesh interactions are a preference,
so technology needs to step down.
(The Daily Post prompt today is fact.)
Lovely and so relevant !
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Thanks. What a world this is that we now find ourselves in!
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Yeah! it has its challenges.
Its a good one though! π
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Wow was this meant to be written as poem? It’s beautiful! I am definitely in the same boat, social media is a massive black hole. Thank you for sharing!
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Thank you for taking the time to read and comment.
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Really enjoyed reading this post, the cons of social media sometimes seem to out number the pros!
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Thanks for your input John. I think we all have a love/hate relationship with social media.
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I couldn’t have said it better! Really enjoyed this!
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Thanks, Lynne.
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So true!!!!! A mix of good and bad!!!!! Enjoyed reading your post! Creative and well written! π
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Thanks Patty. I appreciate it.
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love it.vj. i like social media too. but to a point. i get a little tired of most of it if i am honest. xo
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It keeps us connected but can be too much for sure.
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This is so good, VJ–blogging is about all the “social media” I can handle most days π
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I hear you…
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There are often times I feel this way and I become saddened by the fact the the world seems to be caught in this mirage… an illusion. I am trying to limit my time on the social media aps and to not focus on the negative aspects. The message you are sending is very deep and touching!
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Thanks so much!
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Great way to look at social media, especially Facebook. Iβm pretty sure we all know what we did back then!!
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so annoying…lol
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I enjoyed this piece. And it sure makes one contemplate the pros and cons. So many cons! Iβm no longer engaged on Twitter (not watching cable news either) … to much negativity and misinformation. My FB time is fleeting and I ignore all click bait.
Instagram I enjoy for photography.
WP for poetry.
Social media is my slave, not I a slave of it π
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It definitely needs healthy boundaries.
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Delightful capture of what holds lots of us captive! I prefer spending my online time with blogs …
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I hear you, and then I think I need to stay connected.
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I definitely enjoyed this post. Social media is all good until it starts to dredge up constant reminders of how cold this world can be.
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Such a false ideal. thanks for your comment.
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I get it! On a different note: God has plan for you, and itβs not social media. ππ
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Ha ha – phew!
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I just boycott them all, since they have not turned out to give me anything I would want. Their promises of old friends and support are great, but the reality to me has been being overwhelmed by things I don’t want–noise, spam, unattractive issues of today–and underwhelmed by the alleged good things like close friendship or support which somehow don’t happen. Good luck finding the good things that you do want!
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Ha ha – you are right on. This was written very tongue-in-cheek, posing the question to myself: Why do I bother?
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I think they rely on presenting themselves as having what we want, like any advertising–like anything in life really.
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Just more media hype – it’s all sales in the end.
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Wow VJ! why does this make me feel sad and happy at the same time. This explains how i feel sometimes and to think i am still quite young sigh.. Well written
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Thanks Reina. it’s strange what social media does to us – a weird phenomena for this ol’ gal, lol.
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lol happens to the best of us i believe, not weird at all
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